First thing’s first: Good Women do act in these ways. If you are going to put an asterisk on behavior that’s to be expected from well-adjusted, emotionally stable, good Women, then you’re not dating a good Women. Here are a few things that should make you strap on a jet pack and full throttle it in the other direction:
1. A good Women will never pick apart your looks.
“Oh, if only you had more hair.” “If only you lost those couple of extra pounds.” “If you would only wear better clothes.” A good women will never take jabs at your appearance in a way that’s demeaning to you or makes you feel badly about yourself. If she is doing this, she’s purposely attempting to lower your self-worth so you won’t feel confident enough to leave her. It’s her way of trying to control you and it’s emotional abuse. Walk. Away. Now.
2. A good women will never invade your privacy.
In a healthy relationship, there is no need to hide anything. Texts, emails, facebook messages, whatever. But that doesn’t mean your partner has the right to snoop through them if you happen to leave your phone around or your computer open. Someone who does this is showing a massive insecurity on their part and is likely projecting their own infidelities and issues onto you. This should not be ignored.
*Note: This is assuming you haven’t done anything that would make his suspicious or betrayed his trust.
3. A good women will never discourage you.
A sign of a person’s confidence in themselves is how they help to support the ambition of others. A good woman will always be willing to help and support those around her and will never be discouraging or insulting.
4. A good women will recognise your value; she will not make you feel the need to prove it to her.
The minute you feel that you have to prove your worth to the person you’re with is the minute you’ll know to walk away. A woman or man should be with you because they value and appreciate who you are, not what you do or how well you sell yourself to them.
5. A good women will never make you feel like an afterthought.
While a relationship shouldn’t be someone’s entire life, it’s certainly a large part of it. I’ve heard too many stories about men who constantly get cast aside for “girl’ish night” or something similar. A women should have have a network and individuality, sure. But there is a difference between leading an active social life, and knocking the man in your life further and further down your priority list. If you feel like you’re waiting for her to come home more than you’re actually with her, it’s time to step back and take another look at where your relationship is going.
6. A good women will never make you feel like you are alone in the relationship.
Relationships are a partnership. A team. A two-way street. They’re supposed to enhance your life, not complicate it. If you’re with a woman who is complacent in life and love, puts no effort into you or the relationship, then it’s time to re-evaluate. Keep in mind, it’s natural for people to get depressed and unmotivated at times. If this is someone you’ve been with for a long time, I’m certainly not saying kick him to the curb at the first sign of a slump. We all go through them. What I’m referring to here is someone who is simply apathetic and makes you feel like she doesn’t care. You deserve someone who will wake up every morning and pledge to do and be the best they can for you.
7. A good women will never cheat on you
There are plenty of arguments in the world that monogamy is not “natural” and that humans are not biologically wired to spend an entire lifetime with one single person. Regardless of the scientific validity of this statement, one thing remains true: Monogamy is a personal choice made by two people in a relationship. There is literally nothing physical binding two people together; just a decision. A good woman will never cheat in a relationship because cheating means going back on her word or breaking a promise she has made to someone she loves.
8. A good women will never disrespect you.
Easy, simple, basic – but often overlooked. A good woman will show respect to everyone around her. she will not be condescending or put anyone down, regardless of intelligence level or professional position. As the saying goes, ‘a man of quality is not afraid of equality.’
9. A good women will never avoid important conversations.
Whether it be between family members or in a relationship, a good women understands that no problem can be resolved until it is faced. The only thing that avoidance of difficulties will accomplish is delaying the inevitable and potentially making things worse. There is a difference between choosing your battles and avoiding conflict altogether – the important thing is to know when to hold ’em and when to fold ’em.
10. A good women will NEVER abuse you.
There are many different types of abuse, certainly not just physical and certainly not just in a relationship. Someone can be emotionally abusive toward a child or pet as well as their significant other. Regardless, they all have one thing in common: The desire to break another down. A good woman recognises that her confidence and worth comes from within herself and never from attempting to place others below her. At any sign of any type of abuse, walk (run) away immediately. It will not get better, and you deserve more.
We need to stop making excuses for those who mistreat us and start lowering our tolerance for this nonsense. Any self-respecting decent human being will treat you with the love and compassion that you deserve. If they don’t, then what’s the point of staying with them?
This blog has been modified from http://www.thinkinghumanity.com/2016/02/10-things-good-men-will-never-do.html
Blog as been modified, as I feel there are far to many sites giving out negative statements in regards to men.